We All Need a Good Ass Kicking | Live From The Lair


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When you allow life to become stagnant, a good ass kicking can put you right with the universe.

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38 Replies to “We All Need a Good Ass Kicking | Live From The Lair”

  1. +Terrence Popp You forgot to tell that kid, to brush up on his math and English skills, if he chooses to go into the military. I am a Navy veteran, and I ended up in a decent shop because my mechanical comprehension and electronics scores were high. I don't know how much the ASVAB has changed, but he can get sent to "IT," aka Information Technologies. "A" school if he does well on the test. If he doesn't join the military, then he can take his ass to a community college…particularly one that has good trade programs and learn a trade there and/or get his AA degree in IT, get his fucking certs and carry out the plan of the day from that point. College is a shit choice for men unless they're going majoring in STEM. Personally I hate college because of all the bullshit general classes you have to take. I can give two fucks about some butt fucker, fine arts course, or gender studies, commie indoctrination garbage. I wouldn't mind finishing college, but it's too expensive, and the return on investment is less than what you put into it.

  2. Popp, it is super rare that I disagree with you but remember your Army Center of Gravity analysis: the kids are the most important consideration and given that they are in the teens we know that divorce does the biggest damage to kids during that phase.

    YES! play dumb until the kids are 18. Dude, at 15 years you are already in a long term marriage so getting divorced now does nothing to help you. Take the remaining 6 years to strengthen your relationship with your kids and spend more time with them. Let her drift away from them as she will most likely do since she needs time to have her affair(s). Emotionally begin to heal yourself at the profound hurt you must be going through. Heal at your pace and not while also having to deal with custody and financial armageddon.

    Enjoy your kids and give her all the rope she asks for. Collect evidence, not for the Court but for your kids if she tries to turn the tables on you. Force yourself to stop focusing on her and enjoy your kids. Take her power over your happiness away and Enjoy your kids. You'll need time to do all of that, so don't go the divorce route. Instead use this time to enjoy your kids. Did I mention to enjoy your kids?

    Then when your kids move on to college, you can pull the pin of the marriage. By then you will have prepared yourself emotionally & financially and be secure that she can't interfere or destroy your relationship with your kids. Plus don't forget that a lot can happen in your favor before the 6 years are up.

    As for Popp's advice about getting your kids tested to see if they are yours: Bad idea. It's not like they are babies or toddlers where it may help you avoid child support. At this point it really doesn't matter in the eyes of the Law and, for you, it does nothing except expose you to a devastation you could never imagine. There are your kids, that you have loved since their first breath, that you have successfully raised to this point. So with regard to testing, ignorance is bliss and don't do it.

    Remember that women are master manipulators. She has had a much more realistic view of your relationship and just putting on a front. She is has already been planning on divorcing you and just waiting for the right time. Her affairs aren't just hook-ups, they are proof she searching for the man she will replace you with. It's only you who is late to this game.

    However you have been given a gift most men don't get: you have is discovered her fraud without her know it. It is a rare gift so don't fuck it up by confronting or divorcing her now. That only puts her back in the driver's seat since she holds all the cards. Instead, use the long-term patient approach and take each ace out of her deck…and when you start feeling angry or frustrated remember the goal: (1) Saving your kids from the emotional damage that a divorce now will give them; (2) Stay in their lives now when they need you most; and (3) Safeguarding and strengthening your relationship with your children forever.

    So yes, play dumb until the kids are 18. Hope this helps. Good luck to your children and the Dad they have been blessed with.

  3. Re: 24yr old/military suggestion – I'd pause to recommend any young man join the military.  The military is simply  an arm of the Deep State, a racket which can only propagate evil in the world.  Sorry, but I'd rather be awake.

  4. To the dude with cheating wife.Do not let wife know that you know she's cheating. Go to the best dicorce lawyer you can afford to find out what your up against then form an exit strategy they will help guide you in this matter.Dont take revenge cause you don't no squat about this either and could potentially put you in a bad place physically and mentally .Do not get involved with any woman of any age right now or in the future. Your vulnerable and remember there are no nawalts, take daily doses of red pills to help keep your guard up and to remind you daily of women's true nature. Don't go buying any big ticket items concentrate on getting out of this situation with the least amount of damage concentrate on work concentrate on your daughters. My advice do with it what you will, good luck to you.

  5. i gotta disagree with ya on one thing about the cheating wife. I wouldn't put my foot in the dudes face, but rather her face with a cunt punt to the curb. Now if the dude knew she was married, and worse, knew me, then he would be getting some re-education as well. But she's the primary whore.
    BTW, at 60, I don't cotton to ass kickin's anymore, I deal with things via treachery and deceit. 😉

  6. Speaking of asskickings..
    My brother just got his bluebelt in BJJ, and was the youngest in norway with a bluebelt in TKD, he also finished top of his class in hand to hand combat in the army, and now he wants me, after three traffic accidents, two bad falls, and years of physiotherapy, to join him at BJJ training.
    Seeing as I am in fact, a FUCKING IDIOT, I`m gonna do it.
    #kickmyass xD

  7. I disagree the engineer should get a divorce as soon as possible. He should spend the next several years (until the youngest is graduated from high school) slowly implementing his self protection-exit strategy. The kid's having their father in the home is way more important than him getting away ASAP.
    First, ABSOLUTELY GET A VASECTOMY AND DO THE FOLLOW UP TESTS TO MAKE SURE IT WORKED!! GET REGULAR RE-TESTS!!
    Start insulating his finances from her. That means having hidden savings the wife doesn't know about and a court can't find/touch. A sports car is a really stupid waste of money but it would be a believable money sink. "what was this $500 for?" "oh, I bought a new ported hemoglobin for the sports car."
    Get his name off her credit cards and debt. Pay off his own credit cards. Try to get assets and valuation in joint assets out of her name.
    Do DNA test the kids while innocently researching the ancestral family tree. Get them tested before shit blows up and he is prevented from doing it.
    Be extra observant for signs of STD's.
    Get his heart out of the crack. Divorce her emotionally and mentally, just keep living with her and, yes, keep fucking her. Would he fuck her if she were a one night stand? Probably. So now he just has an ongoing series of emotionless one night stands with the same person he doesn't have to go to the bar to pick up! How convenient!
    Spend as much time with and enjoy the kids as much as possible. Fuck trying to get ahead at work. He may later have to give most of any raises he gets to his divorced wife while he can't see his kids if the marriage ends sooner than he wants so soak up the goody while he can.

    DON'T GO FUCK AROUND!! HAVING A GIRLFRIEND OR FLING ON THE SIDE IS ABSOLUTELY THE WORST IDEA. WILL MAKE HIM LOOK VERY BAD IN COURT AND NULLIFY ANY ADVANTAGE HE HAS FROM PRESENTING EVIDENCE OF HER INFIDELITY IN COURT. PUSSY WILL STILL BE WAITING AFTER THE DIVORCE, THERE'S NO RUSH AND SHE WILL FIND OUT AND IT WILL COUNT AGAINST HIM WAY MORE THAN HER IN COURT. HE NEEDS TO NOT LOSE THE WHITE HAT OVER A PIECE OF ASS. THE KIDS WILL FIND OUT SOONER OR LATER AND WILL TAKE THAT WITH THEM THE REST OF THEIR LIVES. EVERY TIME THEY THINK OF HIM IT WILL BE WITH THE DESCRIPTOR OF "INFIDELITY." LEAVE THAT TO THE MOTHER AND THE MOTHER ONLY.

  8. Do people not hire private investigators or forensic accountants anymore? Hire a professional and catch her in the act, sir. Do it this way and avoid a lot of the most unbearable problems when the case to court.

    No need to commit violence against the other guy or do something so stupid that ends with you in prison. Let the investigator catch him in the act with your wife so she cannot wiggle her way out of it. It's not worth going to jail for this shit.

  9. I was in 3-505 PIR during my enlistment and I could call up about half of my brothers at 0200 and they'd come help me bury a body. plus I've been out since 2001, so that tells you how close knit you can become in the 82nd.

  10. What's up Big Poppa??? 😎👍 I wouldn't be surprised that her being an "accountant" means she does peoples taxes at home during the season and doesn't actually show up on any "I HAVE AN ACTUAL JOB" radar!!! He sounds like the kind of guy who would consider that "Her Working"!!!! I'm 48 and am not only one good looking motherfucker, I'm a life-long New Yorker and I've never met any full-time female accountants!!!!! Sorry, she isn't officially working and just dabbles in that shit while she stays home with the kids………I'LL BET MY LIFE ON THAT!!!!! HE'S BUILDING HER UP TO MAKE HIMSELF LOOK NOT AS FOOLISH!!!! I'm sure that "young guy" is from around the neighborhood, like the pot head who lives next door😂🤣😆😅😅😂 I just painted the most accurate picture of what's gong on with that guy.

  11. Skanks. They need attention and they get it. Dudes fall for them tractorbeams in her panties. A shitty woman with no self pride will give out pussy every chance she gets. I know, I've married two in the army. Whores. Luckily I'm not a father.

  12. Pop right when it comes to that question on if that guy should leave his wife. I went though that shit it hurts like hell at first. But after you get past the Red Pill Rage stage you will find freedom. I lost all my money, my friends, my job and nearly my kids. That was 4 years ago since then things have got alot better. Money of the debt paid off nearly, which she gave me, my kids are now fine, and my friends well i told them to piss off after they sided with her. Im loving my freedom and without all the material bullshit that goes with having a wife. Some advice i caught my wife when we first meet having an affair i forgave her. Worst mistake i ever did. Dont do the same shit i did it only end badly. It might be a few years down the line but it will EVENTUALLY end badly. Im 44 now and life is alot better. I became a MGTOW monk best thing i ever did.

  13. wife cheats on you? Its over…divorce baby!!….but strategically, I'd try to play dumb for a little while so that you can gather up evidence and stage things for divorce….safe guard whatever assets you can (you will lose some…make no mistake)…set her up for as much of a meat grinder as possible….and then you drop the fucking hammer and never look back.

  14. In my own personal experience I've found that married women are easy. Of course, I only found out they were married after it was too late, because that's how women are. Married women are either: bored, angry, disillusioned, or scared shitless that they've lost their looks so (of course) they have to go ride the cock carousel again to make themselves feel better.
    So if you suspect your wife of cheating then she probably is. Just walk away. Staying with a cheating wife makes you a cuck.
    BUT, I would make it perfectly clear to your kids that their mother is a whore. I don't care how young they are. If the cunt is evil enough to risk picking up an STD and share it with the family then the kids deserve the truth.

  15. Life has thrown me plenty of ass kickings. I'm 27, been married for over 2 years but separated for almost a year. I work as a security guard making 1200 a month after taxes. I've been trying to get into something better like real estate. I've got a few partners to invest with but I don't want to risk my ex getting the money and I don't want to legally be closed off from getting money out of the investments. I can't afford an attorney and I start paying child support in October. Do you have any advice? The child support is either 559 a month or 387 a month, idk but either way I know it won't be long til it's virtually impossible to take care of myself. I'm not able to join the military and it's not even possible to start college in my financial condition. I feel stuck and the only thing I know is to work hard for money.